Living in Peace

Genesis 34

What is the most painful or serious medical procedure you have experienced?

Based on the context of this passage what might be some on going family issues that contribute to this situation that develops?
How would you describe Dinah’s relationship with the Caananites?
Why might that relationship in this situation be a problem?
How would you describe Shechem’s feelings towards Dinah?
What are Dinah’s feelings towards Shechem?
Based on our evidence was this a rape by modern standards or is it another ancient crime?
Why does Jacob wait to inform his sons of the problem?

What is the plan that Hamor comes up with to placate Jacob and his family?
What might be his real motivations behind this offer?
What does this plan tell us about the relations between Jacob’s family and their neighbors?
What would make the incredible request of the circumcision of the men of an entire town seem reasonable as a wedding gift?
Why do the men of the town go along with Jacob’s son’s request of Hamor and Shechem?
Why do Jacob’s sons set this as the “bride price” for their sister?

Describe the scene as Jacob’s sons carry out their bloody plot.
What is driving these young men to do this to their neighbors?
Why does Jacob allow this violent plan to be carried out by his boys?
How is it possible that Jacob was surprised by this action of his sons?
What seems to be Jacob’s primary concerns in the situation?
What does this show us about him?

What are some ways that your relationships with non-disciples tempt you into the world’s system?
How do we develop healthy relationships with non-disciples that allow for sharing our faith without being submerged in their value system?
How does a person go about setting healthy boundaries with their neighbors?

What is a dishonor in your life for which you feel the need of revenge?
How can we relieve that impulse without resorting to violent attack?